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    August 23

    Advice Wanted

    So I was talking to my mother the other night and she says to me, "Are you going to Jenny's birthday party?"  Since that was the first I had heard of it, of course my answer was, "I wasn't invited."  To which my mom answered back, "Well, I'm sure it's coming." (meaning my invitation).
     
    To fill you in..."Jenny" is my step-sister Jen.  We were really close when we were kids, but barely speak now (basically because we went seperate ways and have different lives, not because of a falling out).  She's married and lives in Mass.  She is turning 30 on the 26th and apparently the family is throwing her a surprise party next weekend...and I have yet to be contacted.   My question is: am I supposed to just take my mom telling me about the party as my "invitation"?  She was not tasked with inviting me, just mentioned it as if I had already been invited.  I know if a friend was having a party and another friend asked me about it in passing, I would not consider that an inviation...but is that different when it's "family"?
     
    A couple of Christmas's ago the family party was at my step-sister Terri's house (incidently that's where the birthday party).  Terri contacted my parents and did the whole "can you let Bridget know" thing, but my step-father explained to her that I'm an adult now (as opposed to when I lived at home with them, the inviation could have been implied) and she needed to contact me direclty to invite me...which she finally did, although way later than she should have...but that's another story.  Am I wrong to expect that I should be given my own invitation?  Are they going to consider my conversation with my mom as my invitation and just think I'm "pouting" if I don't show up (after my mom tells them that she told me about it)?  I have to admit that I'm slightly hurt by their lack of consideration, although not very surprised. 
     
    Also, it is now officially less than a week away and I have yet to get the call.  Anything now will be short notice...which I feel is also inconsiderate (I have a high school friend who is going to be in town next weekend and I feel like I should make plans with her since I haven't been invited to Jen's party...and my friend HAS asked me to get together).  At this time I'm sure my step-father has placed the "don't forget Bridget" reminder call, so any invitation I get now will probably be a result of that and not of them actually thinking of me.  Am I just being a whiney baby about all of this?  Should I just go and forget that I was totally snubbed...or should I consider that I'm not really invited and not go?  Advice please...  
    August 09

    My list...finally!!

    Here's my list as promised:

     

    1. (The boring one) I was born in Singapore.  No, I don't remember anything about Singapore because I was only a couple of months old when we left.  And yes, my father was in the military which is why we were there.  Someday I would love to go back and check it out.  I hear it's a beautiful place.

     

    2.  I cannot, CANNOT, eat or even smell, Ranch dressing.  I used to love it until "the incident" which happened when I was about 9 or 10 years old.  My mother had cut up a bunch of raw veggies that we dipped in the dressing.  I ate so much of it that I ended up getting violently ill that night.  I don't think I've ever been so sick in my life.  From that day forward you better not put any Ranch dressing in front of me or you'll be sorry!  On the same note, I have the same aversion to yogurt...however this has nothing to do with any incident.  I just can't stand it.  When I was young my mother tried every freakin' kind of yogurt they make and I couldn't do it.  The smell of it brings on the dry-heave gag reflex.  And this is no joke as witnessed by one of my ex-boyfriends who thought it would be funny to back me into a corner and force feed me yogurt.  Incidentally, this is just one reason that I'm not with him anymore.

     

    3.  I just figured out that every time I type the word "yogurt" I first type "yogury" for some reason.  Oh, and I guess I have a tendency to be random.  (Hey, that's two things!...and I guess I cheated a bit on this one too, but I can do that because it’s my list and my blog!). 

     

    4.  I think that certain singers and/or specific songs are spiritually connected to my soul.  Specifically Sarah McLachlan and Alanis Morrisette.  Listen to their songs.  I dare you to not be moved.  From my favorite Sarah McLachlan song Do What You Have To Do: “Every moment marked with apparitions of your soul…” and “Glowing ember, burning hot and burning slow/ Deep within, I'm shaken by the violence of existing for only you.”  Can you say brilliant?  There are too many others to mention, but I think you get the idea.  

     

    5.  I'm a fabulous rock star in my living room and sometimes in my car too, but only when no one is looking.  Oh come on, like you don’t do it too?!

     

    6.  I’m a great “project starter” but a horrible “project finisher”.  There are probably 20-30 unfinished projects hidden somewhere around my house.  I wish I had enough “stick-to-it-ness” to finish what I start.  I just bought two books on beginning quilting because I got the brilliant idea that I can make a quilt (does that make me old?).  How many of you out there think I’ll actually FINISH a quilt?  Maybe I should start with a quilted pot holder.  That one I might be able to finish.

     

    7.  I have a very weird and specific getting-up-in-the-morning routine.  When I have to start work at 7am, the alarm goes off at 5:01am (yes, 5:01…and, yes I’ve been told I’m OCD…but wait, it gets better).  Then my secondary alarm (my watch) is set for 5:05am.  I hit the snooze on my regular alarm every nine minutes until 5:37.  At that time I switch it over to the radio and set the timer on my watch for 14 minutes.  When the timer goes off it’s time to get up (or set it for another 4 minutes if I’m really tired).  Wow, I think I just discovered why I live alone!!

     

    8.  For my 30th birthday I decided to treat myself to something from Tiffany & Co.  I bought a silver necklace from the Elsa Peretti collection.  It’s a sliver “B” charm on a sliver chain.  Nothing too extravagant, but getting that little blue box with the white ribbon was so exciting.  In fact, it was so exciting that I decided to continue and make this a tradition and buy myself something for my birthday every year (who says I need a man to buy me stuff?!).  For my 31st birthday I was actually in NYC so I got to go to the Tiffany store to make my purchase.  I bought a silver ring from the Frank Gehry collection.  Again, nothing too fancy but I actually wear it everyday.  I don’t know what I’ll pick out this year, but I can tell you that I have my eye on a Celebration ring for my 40th.  Check ‘em out and you’ll see what I mean…diamonds!

     

    Well, hope you like my list.  Since it took me so long to come up with it, I tried very hard to come up with some interesting things.  Now you know a little bit about me.  I just hope you don’t think I’m a freak!! ;o)  

    August 06

    All is not forgotten

    Okay, I was tagged by Dana to produce a list of eight interesting things about me...I have not forgotten about this.  As I said before, I have to do this at work, so be patient.  Also, since those who read my blog have either been tagged already or do not have an MSN Spaces blog, I am not going to "officially" tag anyone myself.  I'm going to leave that up to those who read this.  If you want to create your own list, knock your socks off!  If you would prefer to read my wonderful list once it's posted and then call it a day, more power to ya!  I'm not uptight.  Whatever floats your boat!! (Yikes, could I have used any more cliches?)
     
    Anyway...stop back soon for my list...